A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but
there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
Proverbs 18:24
By my own guidelines, this is not a name of Christ, because it’s pulled out of context. It comes from a proverb that gives broad generalizations about friends and friendship. However, if I make the rules, I can also make my own exceptions. Through experience, I’ve found Christ to be A Friend Who Sticks Closer Than a Brother.
Brotherhood is a powerful bond; there’s almost nothing like it. Sharing childhood, growing up together, and discovering the world at the same time are experiences that few can compete with. Even so, brothers grow up, get married, and move away. Time and distance take their toll, and the brothers settle into their separate lives.
A really good friend is harder to find than a brother, because brothers often share the same bedroom; they’re always right there. A good friendship usually takes years to develop and must be cultivated, especially at the beginning. But once it takes root, it is hearty and continues through thick and thin.
I’ve been close to a big brother and to a very good friend. Death took them both from me. Each time, I felt empty, alone, and numb. The loss of a great relationship is a great loss.
I’m able to take complete comfort in the fact that I’ll see them both again. The truth of the matter is that we all have a mutual friend, and we’re going to meet at His place as soon as I can finish my last breath.
In the meantime, Jesus supports me. When I’m lonely, He’s there; when I’m tired, He pulls the load; when I hurt, He comforts me; when I am frustrated, He listens. The best part of all is He’ll never die. He’s already done that. He is for me A Friend Who Sticks Closer Than a Brother.
May 4
